Shri Gokulnathji's Hasya Prasangs: Prasang - 21

Prabhu is only obtained out of Prabhu's Krupa and not because of Jeev's Saadhan (Prabhuni Krupae Prabhu Male – Jeev-na Saadhane Nahi):

One time Pancholi said (asked) as follows… Raj, daily, I consume Dodh-Pa-Sher Ghee, and if I desire (if I make the effort) – (Fed bandhine hindoo to baar gaau kaapi naakhu), then I can travel across twelve villages (like cross country trek); However, Raj, when Aap (you) visit Shriji-Dvaar, (aap jyare Shriji Dvaar padhaaro tyare), at that time, it is not possible for me to go along with you, and staying here without Raj, there is no happiness also (I am unable to find happiness). Even when flapping here and there desperately, it is not possible to come (rahya rahya tarfadiya kariye chiye to pan avatu nathi). At that time Aap said…
that, those who we go to see, if they desire then they will see us.. if Shreeji himself decides that this person should come and see me, then we are able to visit, we cannot go with our own strength.
(ke jene nirakhva jaiye, tena manma ave to darshan ape, shriji pote dhare ke E mane avine dekhe to avaya, potana bale na avaya.)

Vivechan - We cannot do prabhu's darshan with our own strength. Only if prabhu bestows his grace then we can do darshan. If prabhu thinks (about a jeev) then that jeev's work is done (life becomes fulfilled). There is no meaning in the jeev's making an effort (saaddhan) and Prabhu's darshan. Therefore, remaining ananyashray, keeping faith, being nisaadhan (without relying on unnecessary/material effort) and being humble will make one eligible to receive Bhagvat krupa (Grace). He only marries those on whom He bestows His krupa and gives/grants literal benediction/boon of anand/bliss.
(apna bal thi prabhuna darshan thata nathi, prabhu krupa kare toj darshan de, Prabhu vichare to jeevnu kaam thay. jeevna saaddhan-nu prabhuna darshan ma kaayaj gaju nathi, maate ananyaashray rahi vishvash rakhi nihsadhan ane deen baniye to bhagvat-krupa thay. Prabhu jena-upar krupa kare tenej pote vare che, ne saakshaat anand-nu daan kare che.)